I always was into having sex several times a week with my wife. I would encourage my wife to take on other lovers but she would not have any of it. Over time she finally agreed to try it. The guy we brought back to our hotel room had a big cock. They exchanged phone numbers and meet once a week at various hotels or motels now. I no longer have sex with her because she now realizes how small a cock I have after having a big one. She told me it was all my doings and I will just have to accept it. She keeps telling me she wants me to lick her clean when she comes home, but I do not want to do that. However over time hearing this several times a week I have been rethinking it.